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Domestic violence against men is not always straightforward to identify, but it is usually a serious hazard to the abused person. How do you fully understand if either you or someone you know is being abused in such as way as to be deemed a victim of ?domestic violence?? And where can you or they go to get information confidentially?

Beleive it or not, the fact is that women are not the only sufferers of domestic violence.

What are the signs of domestic violence against men?

Domestic violence is also referred to as domestic maltreatment, battering or other spouse or partner violence. It happens most often between people while in a close relationship. Domestic violence against men can take many various forms, most notably psychological, emotional, physical, sexual abuse and almost always the threats of abuse. Domestic violence occurs without regard to sexual orientation. In fact, it happens in both in heterosexual and homosexual relationships.

Domestic violence against men is often hard to identify. But all too often here is what happens: soon in the new and usually intimate relationship, one person seems very attentive, remarkably giving and rather overly protective. Soon and in hindsight s/he turns out to be terribly inhibiting and usually frightening. In the beginning with that person, the abuse might appear as isolated incidents. And that?s when the cycle of i?m sorry and promises to not to do that abusive thing to you ever again.

In some domestic partnerships, domestic violence against men might consist of both persons or partners play-slapping and/or pushing each other around when one or the other gets irritated. Typically neither person sees himself or herself as being mistreated or manipulated. Regardless, the adverse affects of those types of subtle violence, however, it will devastate a relationship and leaving both persons with deep, long-lasting emotional scarring and physical damage.

Domestic violence against men happens both in private and even in public. Here are 17+ warning signs that you might be the victim of abuse:

1. Constant, belittling name calling
2. Repeatedly saying hurtful insults or personal put downs
3. Physically prevents you from going out to work or school
4. Slowly and eventually stops or cuts you off from seeing and communicating to family, friends, neighbors and especially other people
5. Seeks to restrain how you spend your personal savings
6. Tries to keep control on where you go and even what clothing you wear
7. Is or acts jealous and angrily so
8. Is extremely possessive
9. Frequently accuses you of cheating
10. Becomes an angry, beligerent drunk or gets crazy when high on drugs
11. Has a firearm or other dangerous weaponry and uses them to threaten you with violence
12. Has a history of and may still abuse pets or small animals
13. Has hurt you and/or your children or elderly parent(s)
14. Has hit, punched, kicked, choked or otherwise assaulted you while you were sleeping, intoxicated or unable to defend yourself
15. Has raped or forced you to have sex or perform sex acts against your will (Never takes NO as a NO.)
16. Argues that you are really responsible for his or her violent behaviors or declares you that you therefore deserved the abuse
17. Outwardly to you and especially to other people characterizes the violence as a joke or just consensual rough sex that it all is no big deal.

In short, if either you or someone you know has experienced any of the above signs of domestic abuse, or been the victim of domestic violence, then please stop right now and call your local police department and report them. There are laws prohibiting physical voilence and state and local resources to help and protect male and female victims of domestic violence.

I advocate for stopping domestic abuse and especially violence against men. No person, man or woman, should ever suffer abuse of any kind or domestic violence in a relationship. Please visit my website for information and resources about the unspoken abuse of and domestic violence agaisnt men by women and other men.

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